A Study in Passive-Aggressive Self-Defense

This soccer publication is strangely uninspiring, yet oddly captivating. Even title raises questions. Dear England currently names a hit play, an upcoming TV show, and a public letter penned by the manager in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t formally tied to any of those. It stands as an oddity in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about guidance: a typically uninspiring elite football manager subject that Southgate sticks to persistently, relying on the words “leadership”, “leading” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across 336 pages.

Questions Explored

“Who are the leaders? What is the role of a leader? What insights do leaders have?” Southgate inquires in the opening, setting out his position, but stopping short to ask “How are leaders?”, themes probably saved for a second book.

Beyond that, this publication contains a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an attempt in subtly confrontational self-justification, in nearly but not entirely expressing the real point, jumping skillfully from unresolved issue to unscabbed wound across a collection of pie charts, management jargon and digressions about Thomas Cromwell.

Engagement

Reading it is like eavesdropping on your family members having a mannered but profoundly personal argument in the next room while you’re striving to concentrate on a professional workshop named “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also impossible to put down, as the author keeps approaching to an issue you truly desire to discover, before suddenly veering away.

Disclosures

The book contains typically attention-grabbing disclosures in books like these, explained by the peeled-eyeball obsession with leading the national team. The most striking ones encompass: the manager made up his mind he was absolutely going to step down as England manager after fans hurled cups at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at half-time against Bulgaria in 2019 after his players were targeted with slurs; he introduced the concept of set-piece coaches and everyone in the English football is now adopting his methods; he has now misplaced his love for the sport, a shocking confession thrown away in a single paragraph at the final part.

Guiding England through a period of anger, hope, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a brutal ordeal. The wounds are obviously still unhealed.

Commonplace Material

In other sections, the narrative is flooded with an computer-generated linguistic mush of generic guidance discourse. Advanced copies of this publication were distributed with reviewers under secrecy pacts before release, likely out of concern someone might leak that “challenging discussions can, by their very essence, be tough”, that you should always think before you act, that leadership occurs where evolution combines with understanding.

Sincere Expression

The book contains however authentic feeling within. Managing England through a time of fury, hope, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a brutal ordeal. The scars are evidently still fresh, though presented in a jargon-laden reinterpretation of the traditional football manager story: how my decisions were correct about everything throughout.

Detailed Instances

Even publication’s opening passage, Trojan-horsed as thrilling memories of the championship match of the tournament, is entirely focused on how successful he actually was at substitutes (the big criticism of Southgate revolving around he was not good at substitutes). Further on, he goes into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the championship match of 2021 flawlessly – specifically the losing penalty shootout – because he complied with a established procedure, which suggests that introducing young players at the last moment to take the biggest kick of their careers was logical and right.

That approach was validated by a victorious shootout against Switzerland in a subsequent competition after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to wear a pullover the inside out. “Our commanding performance in that penalty decider was simply thrilling,” Southgate states, while likening the performance to elite military units neutralizing a high-profile target. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we come near to a insight, Southgate retreats from identifying individuals or giving us the details. We hear there were problematic England squad members who demanded more attention, maybe because they were spoilt early in their careers. But as you expect eagerly, the author is quickly diverting into a topic named a leadership concept, which claims that rather than a assemblage of qualities or ideals, culture is in fact a phenomenon that is developed by, gah, stop, no more.

Highlights

Within the more compelling parts are when the author discusses about the piecemeal process of developing resilience in young people, or how he tried to describe national identity more lucidly and more constructively than any public personality in the public eye. Most impressively, there is a truly compelling account of that distressing evening in Sofia where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and later supported robustly by their manager).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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Tanya Webster
Tanya Webster

Mira Thorne is a seasoned journalist and political analyst with over a decade of experience covering European affairs and digital trends.